18.5.11

Non attachment-- Rana

So... yesterday a friend of mine, or someone I thought was a friend, sent me a long text message pretty much ending the friendship. There was no real explanation or reason as we have had no issues up until that point. This friend ranted this and that, but none of it really made any sense.

Now my initial reaction was shock, confusion and hurt. In the past, I would of probably started freaking out and would of called this friend or sent them several messages out of anger and frustration. Instead, I chose to take a couple of moments to contain  myself, as I was with another friend at the time.

 As I began to calm and ground myself, I began to realize that this time was different. I was not going to react from my ego as I normally would. Nor was I  going to call this person or even reply. I chose instead to see the light and  accept rather than react. I realized that although I can't really see how in this moment, what happened is for my highest and best good. Quite frankly, if this person can't see the light and beauty within me than this person is not worthy of a spot in my life. I wish this person nothing but love and light but I now chose to release, let go and move on.  Hey now I have a spot opened up! Anyone interested?? lol jk


The moral? 

People
Things
Situations
Come in and out of your life. In either case, the lesson is to NOT BE ATTACHED and to ACCEPT their expiry date.

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